Thinking Dad Podcast

"It's important that you have another man in your life that you're being open and honest with. Why? Because a man knows how a man thinks." — Sam Black
Watch this interview today, ONLY on @X!
In this bonus episode of the Thinking Dad Podcast, host Garritt Hampton and guest Sam Black, of Covenant Eyes, dive deep into the critical issue of pornography affecting the church and destroying marriages and lives. Sam shares valuable insights on how churches can better address this challenge and offers practical steps for individuals seeking freedom and healing. Learn how to rebuild trust in your marriage, establish strong accountability, and foster genuine relationships and support within your community.
🔗 Episode Highlights:
Addressing porn addiction in church leadership and congregation
Practical steps for safe disclosure within marriages
Rebooting intimacy through abstinence
Building strong, accountable male friendships for accountability and support
The necessity of church involvement in personal growth
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The Thinking Dad  and all of the shows on the Biblical Family Network are only possible because of the generous support of our listeners. Would you consider a one-time or monthly donation to support this important ministry?
Recommended Resources:
The Healing Church: What Churches Get Wrong about Pornography and How to Fix It, by Sam Black
Good Pictures Bad Pictures Jr.: A Simple Plan to Protect Young Minds, by Kristen A. Jenson
Victory App from Covenant Eyes
The Porn Circuit: Understand Your Brain and Break Porn Habits
Your Brain on Porn: 5 Proven Ways Pornography Warps Your Mind and 3 Biblical Ways to Renew It
Podcast Recommendations:
Bob Lepine - Gospel-Centered Leadership at Home and In the Church
Homeschooling Resources: 
🍿🍿🍿 Stream Schoolhouse Rocked: The Homeschool Revolution for FREE today!
Strings Attached: The True Cost of School Choice
Affordable Homeschooling: Educate with Excellence Without Breaking the Bank
Discussion Questions:
Understanding the Problem: Sam Black mentioned that only 7% of churches are actively addressing the issue of pornography. Why do you think this percentage is so low, and what can churches do to increase their involvement?
Primary Goal in Restoration: According to Sam, the primary goal is to draw a person closer to Christ. How does this goal outweigh the temptation to merely deal with the symptoms of pornography addiction?
Practical Steps: Sam Black discussed the importance of a real discipleship process for healing. What practical steps can a church take to implement such a process effectively?
Communication in Marriage: How should a married couple approach a situation where one partner is struggling with pornography? What are the potential challenges and solutions in this scenario?
Role of Abstinence: Sam mentioned a period of abstinence from both masturbation and sex as a way to reset intimacy. How do you think this might affect a marriage in the short and long terms?
Accountability: Sam emphasized that a spouse should not be the primary accountability partner. What are the reasons behind this, and how can men find suitable accountability partners?
Community and Support: What steps can men take to create and nurture strong, Christ-centered friendships that offer mutual support and accountability?
Vulnerability and Strength: Sam argues that true strength comes from being fully known and fully loved. How can men overcome the fear of vulnerability in their relationships with other men?
Impact of Pornography on Marriage: How does pornography use negatively impact the intimacy and sexual relationship within a marriage?
Church’s Role in Healing: What specific roles should church leaders and congregations play in addressing and healing the issue of pornography within their community?
 
The Thinking Dad podcast is a member of the Biblical Family Network. Our mission is to support and encourage the family by providing the very best podcasts on family, discipleship, marriage, parenting, worldview, culture, and education, all from a Biblical perspective. Visit the website for more great shows.
The Thinking Dad is sponsored by CTCMath.
Thinking dads raise thinking kids! One of the most important things you can do as a father is make sure your kids are getting a great education to prepare them for life. CTCMath is a powerful tool for that mission, and it's the one our family uses and loves.
 CTCMath specializes in providing online video tutorials that take a multi-sensory approach to learning. Creative graphics and animation, synchronized with the friendly voice of internationally acclaimed teacher, Pat Murray, make learning math easy and effective, even for students who struggle with math. Visit CTCmath.com to start your free trial today.
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"Pornography is undermining every ministry of the local church. From young to old, men and women are struggling." — Sam Black
Watch this full interview today, ONLY on @X!
Garritt Hampton and guest Sam Black, of Covenant Eyes, take on the critical issue of pornography within the church, discussing its impact on men, women, children, and even pastors and ministry leaders. With over 17 years of experience helping men overcome this addiction, Sam shares his journey, the power of accountability, and the tools available to combat this pervasive issue. Learn proactive parenting tips, and how to create safe spaces in church for honest discussions on this important topic.
🔖 Key Topics:• The significance discipleship in recovery• Creating accountability in church communities• Addressing pornography's impact on children• Tools and resources for combatting pornography addiction• Support for ministry leaders facing personal struggles
Come Back November 18th for a Bonus Episode with Sam Black!
The Thinking Dad  and all of the shows on the Biblical Family Network are only possible because of the generous support of our listeners. Would you consider a one-time or monthly donation to support this important ministry?
Recommended Resources:
The Healing Church: What Churches Get Wrong about Pornography and How to Fix It, by Sam Black
Good Pictures Bad Pictures Jr.: A Simple Plan to Protect Young Minds, by Kristen A. Jenson
Victory App from Covenant Eyes
The Porn Circuit: Understand Your Brain and Break Porn Habits
Your Brain on Porn: 5 Proven Ways Pornography Warps Your Mind and 3 Biblical Ways to Renew It
Podcast Recommendations:
Bob Lepine - Gospel-Centered Leadership at Home and In the Church
Homeschooling Resources: 
🍿🍿🍿 Stream Schoolhouse Rocked: The Homeschool Revolution for FREE today!
Strings Attached: The True Cost of School Choice
Affordable Homeschooling: Educate with Excellence Without Breaking the Bank
Discussion Questions:
Encouraging Open Communication in the Church:
What are some practical steps that pastors and ministry leaders can take to encouraging open and candid conversations for addressing personal struggles within their church?
Role of Covenant Eyes and Technology:
How do tools like Covenant Eyes and its Victory app aid in the fight against pornography within both personal lives and church communities?
In what ways can technology be leveraged positively to support spiritual growth and accountability?
In what ways can technology be a hinderance to spiritual growth?
Parenting and Proactive Education:
What strategies can parents employ to educate their children about pornography from a young age without instilling shame or fear?
How can parents foster open communication with their children so that they feel comfortable addressing other tough issues?
Impact on Ministry Leaders:
What unique challenges do pastors and ministry leaders face in dealing with personal struggles such as pornography, and how can the church support them more effectively?
How should seminaries adapt their training to better address the personal and spiritual issues that future pastors may face?
Biblical Framework for Accountability:
How can the principles from James 5:16 about confessing sins to one another be integrated into the church’s approach to dealing with pornography addiction?
In what ways does Galatians 6 guide the church in gently correcting and restoring individuals struggling with sexual sin?
Community, Accountability, and Discipleship:
What role do community, fellowship, discipleship, and accountability play in promoting lasting true conversion and freedom from the bondage of sin?
Historical vs. Modern Access to Pornography:
How has the shift from limited access to pornography (e.g., magazines) to its current digital ubiquity changed the landscape for parents and church leaders?
What are the increased risks associated with the more explicit and violent content of today’s pornography, especially in the context of children's development?
Addressing Shame and Perfectionism:
How does a cycle of shame and perfectionism manifest in the behaviors of those struggling with pornography, and what are effective strategies for breaking this cycle?
Engaging the Whole Church:
With statistics indicating high levels of pornography use among church members and leaders, what comprehensive approaches can churches take to address this issue effectively?
How can the church ensure that it doesn’t "shoot its wounded" but instead offers deep discipleship, genuine support, and effective tools to those who are struggling?
 
The Thinking Dad podcast is a member of the Biblical Family Network. Our mission is to support and encourage the family by providing the very best podcasts on family, discipleship, marriage, parenting, worldview, culture, and education, all from a Biblical perspective. Visit the website for more great shows.
The Thinking Dad is sponsored by CTCMath.
Thinking dads raise thinking kids! One of the most important things you can do as a father is make sure your kids are getting a great education to prepare them for life. CTCMath is a powerful tool for that mission, and it's the one our family uses and loves.
 CTCMath specializes in providing online video tutorials that take a multi-sensory approach to learning. Creative graphics and animation, synchronized with the friendly voice of internationally acclaimed teacher, Pat Murray, make learning math easy and effective, even for students who struggle with math. Visit CTCmath.com to start your free trial today.
Connect with the Thinking Dad:
Subscribe to the Thinking Dad newsletter
@GarrittHampton on X
Garritt Hampton on Facebook
Thinking Dad on YouTube
Schoolhouse Rocked Website (Blog, Newsletter, Support, Store, Movie, and More!)

"We're reaching people through the power of storytelling." — Steve Cleary
Watch this full interview on our YouTube Channel
Garritt Hampton sits down with Steve Cleary, the founder of Revelation Media and the groundbreaking iBible project. Discover how Steve’s early experiences with Richard and Sabina Wurmbrand and working with Voice of the Martyrs shaped his view of the church, faith, and missions. Learn about the ongoing persecution of Christians around the world, and how modern media tools are transforming missionary work. We discuss the importance of storytelling and using visual and audio media to share the Gospel, the challenges of spiritual leadership, and the role of dads in guiding their families toward the faith.
The Thinking Dad  and all of the shows on the Biblical Family Network are only possible because of the generous support of our listeners. Would you consider a one-time or monthly donation to support this important ministry?
Recommended Resources:
Revelation Media
iBible
Tortured for Christ (book and audiobook)
Tortured for Christ (film)
The Pastor's Wife, by Sabina Wurmbrand
The Pilgrim's Progress (film)
The Voice of the Martyrs
 
Podcast Recommendations:
Andrew Pudewa - Preparing for Persecution: Faith, Family, and Fortitude
Homeschooling Resources: 
🍿🍿🍿 Stream Schoolhouse Rocked: The Homeschool Revolution for FREE today!
Strings Attached: The True Cost of School Choice
Affordable Homeschooling: Educate with Excellence Without Breaking the Bank
 
Discussion Questions:
How did Steve Cleary's early experiences with Richard and Sabina Wurmbrand shape his career and ministry focus?
Steve discusses changes in the American church's awareness of Christian persecution over time. How do you think these shifts in awareness have impacted the church's global missions?
Reflect on Richard and Sabina Wurmbrand's commitment to their faith under dire conditions. How can their example inspire us in our own spiritual journeys?
Steve Cleary speaks about the challenges men face in taking the spiritual leadership role within their families. How can fathers be encouraged and supported in this responsibility?
Steve Cleary highlights the effectiveness of visual and audio media in spreading the Gospel. What are the advantages and potential challenges of using these mediums compared to traditional print Bibles?
What do you think about the iBible's approach to presenting the entire biblical narrative visually? How could this impact different communities and cultures around the world?
How does iBible's mission of using audio and visual media to spread the Gospel align with the Great Commission's mandate to reach every tribe and nation?
Steve Cleary speaks highly of Richard and Sabina Wurmbrand's deep faith and spirituality. Who are some modern-day role models of faith that inspire you in your own spiritual walk, and why?
 
The Thinking Dad podcast is a member of the Biblical Family Network. Our mission is to support and encourage the family by providing the very best podcasts on family, discipleship, marriage, parenting, worldview, culture, and education, all from a Biblical perspective. Visit the website for more great shows.
The Thinking Dad is sponsored by CTCMath.
Thinking dads raise thinking kids! One of the most important things you can do as a father is make sure your kids are getting a great education to prepare them for life. CTCMath is a powerful tool for that mission, and it's the one our family uses and loves.
 CTCMath specializes in providing online video tutorials that take a multi-sensory approach to learning. Creative graphics and animation, synchronized with the friendly voice of internationally acclaimed teacher, Pat Murray, make learning math easy and effective, even for students who struggle with math. Visit CTCmath.com to start your free trial today.
Connect with the Thinking Dad:
Subscribe to the Thinking Dad newsletter
@GarrittHampton on X
Garritt Hampton on Facebook
Thinking Dad on YouTube
Schoolhouse Rocked Website (Blog, Newsletter, Support, Store, Movie, and More!)

"A father is a shepherd, responsible for the safety, provision, and godly upbringing of his children." — Davis Carman
Watch this full interview on our YouTube Channel
Davis Carman joins Garritt Hampton to discuss the foundational aspects of being a modern husband and father. Learn how to instill strong Christian values in your children, the significance of sharing testimonies of God’s faithfulness, and the benefits of parent-led education and discipleship. Davis also introduces the "Success Sequence" and offers insights on guiding our children to ultimate, eternal success in every season of life.
📚 Topics Covered:• The role of personal testimony in parenting• Meaningful father-child conversations about faith• Practical faith-building activities for families• The impact of education on the faith and wellbeing of our families• Applying the “success sequence” in life• Preparing our Children for marriage
The Thinking Dad  and all of the shows on the Biblical Family Network are only possible because of the generous support of our listeners. Would you consider a one-time or monthly donation to support this important ministry?
Recommended Resources:
Free Resources from Apologia
Apologia Homeschool Bootcamp
Podcast Recommendations:
Let's Talk Homeschool Podcast, with Rachael and Davis Carman
More from Davis Carman on the Schoolhouse Rocked Podcast
Homeschooling Resources: 
🍿🍿🍿 Stream Schoolhouse Rocked: The Homeschool Revolution for FREE today!
Strings Attached: The True Cost of School Choice
Affordable Homeschooling: Educate with Excellence Without Breaking the Bank
 
Discussion Questions:
How can fathers effectively engage in meaningful conversations with their young children about life, marriage, faith, and personal testimonies?
Why does Davis Carman emphasize the importance of personal testimonies in raising children? Can you share a personal story that has influenced your faith or parenting approach?
What are the pivotal roles that Davis Carman believes men should fulfill as modern-day males, and how do these roles contribute to a God-honoring family life?
Discuss the "Success Sequence" introduced by Davis Carman. How do you believe this sequence can impact both financial stability and spiritual health in a family setting?
What are some practical examples Davis and Garritt suggest for integrating faith into daily routines with children, and how have these practices been effective in your parenting experience?
Why do Garritt Hampton and Davis Carman advocate for homeschooling, and what are the perceived benefits and challenges mentioned in the podcast?
What advice does Davis Carman give to families who are unable to homeschool due to various reasons? How can these families still instill strong spiritual and moral values in their children?
What key points does Davis Carman make about the role and definition of a father as a shepherd of his children? How can fathers apply these principles in their parenting?
How can men avoid the pitfalls of passivity or over-dominance in their roles as husbands, as discussed by Davis Carman? 
What insights were shared about the transformative power of marriage and the importance of involving parents in the dating and courtship process? How important are prayer and early conversations with children about relationships?
 
The Thinking Dad podcast is a member of the Biblical Family Network. Our mission is to support and encourage the family by providing the very best podcasts on family, discipleship, marriage, parenting, worldview, culture, and education, all from a Biblical perspective. Visit the website for more great shows.
The Thinking Dad is sponsored by CTCMath.
Thinking dads raise thinking kids! One of the most important things you can do as a father is make sure your kids are getting a great education to prepare them for life. CTCMath is a powerful tool for that mission, and it's the one our family uses and loves.
 CTCMath specializes in providing online video tutorials that take a multi-sensory approach to learning. Creative graphics and animation, synchronized with the friendly voice of internationally acclaimed teacher, Pat Murray, make learning math easy and effective, even for students who struggle with math. Visit CTCmath.com to start your free trial today.
Connect with the Thinking Dad:
Subscribe to the Thinking Dad newsletter
@GarrittHampton on X
Garritt Hampton on Facebook
Thinking Dad on YouTube
 
@schoolhouse_rocked on Instagram
Schoolhouse Rocked on Facebook
@SRHomeschool on Twitter
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"Physical, mental, and spiritual strength is essential for facing persecution." — Andrew Pudewa
Watch this full interview on our YouTube Channel
Andrew Pudewa joins host, Garritt Hampton, to discuss the significance of education in nurturing the spirit of our children, the impact of modern culture on family values, and the importance of fostering physical, mental, and spiritual strength to endure faithfully to the end. Andrew emphasizes the need to raise Christian communicators and establish a legacy of faith and perseverance. He also explores the foundation of lies that have undermined the Judeo-Christian foundation of Western civilization.
The Thinking Dad  and all of the shows on the Biblical Family Network are only possible because of the generous support of our listeners. Would you consider a one-time or monthly donation to support this important ministry?
Recommended Resources:
Institute for Excellence in Writing
However Imperfectly: Lessons learned from thirty years of teaching, by Andrew Pudewa
The Rise and Triumph of the Modern Self: Cultural Amnesia, Expressive Individualism, and the Road to Sexual Revolution, by Carl R. Trueman
The Coddling of the American Mind: How Good Intentions and Bad Ideas Are Setting Up a Generation for Failure, by Greg Lukianoff and Jonathan Haidt
Conquering Corrupt Culture, by Andrew Pudewa
Podcast Recommendations:
More from Andrew Pudewa on the Schoolhouse Rocked Podcast
Homeschooling Resources: 
🍿🍿🍿 Stream Schoolhouse Rocked: The Homeschool Revolution for FREE today!
Strings Attached: The True Cost of School Choice
 
Discussion Questions:
Spiritual Education and Parental Roles:
How do you think involving children in religious activities and practices, like going to church and praying together, shapes their spiritual foundation? What strategies can parents, particularly fathers, employ to be more actively involved in their children's spiritual education?
Stewardship and Neglect:
Andrew and Garritt describe failing to guide children spiritually as a severe form of neglect. Do you agree with this perspective? Why or why not?
Macro vs. Micro Culture:
How can families create strong, faith-based micro cultures at home to counteract the negative influences of the broader societal macro culture? What specific practices or traditions have you found effective in your own experience?
Managing Modern Cultural Challenges:
In the face of increasing exposure to negative influences like pornography and violent media, what practical steps can parents take to control what enters their home environment?
Discernment and Tribalism:
Andrew Pudewa discusses the importance of discernment and avoiding an "us versus them" mentality. How can families cultivate discernment in both children and adults to navigate modern societal challenges?
Physical and Spiritual Resilience:
Andrew Pudewa suggests that intentional physical discomfort (e.g., fasting, enduring extreme temperatures) can build spiritual and mental strength. Do you agree with this approach? How might you implement such practices in your own life?
Identity in Relationship to the Creator:
Pudewa emphasizes the importance of understanding one's identity starting with their highest relationship with the Creator. How does this perspective impact the way you view and nurture your children's understanding of their identity?
Raising Children with a Biblical Foundation:
How does a Biblical discipleship provide essential frameworks for children to understand the world?
Happiness and Ordered Life Purpose:
According to Pudewa, happiness stems from having a "properly ordered purpose." How can parents help their children find and follow a properly ordered purpose that aligns with their beliefs and values?
Preparing for Potential Persecution:
In light of Andrew Pudewa's talk "Preparing for Persecution," how should modern families approach the possibility of facing persecution for their faith? What practical and spiritual preparations can be made?
 
The Thinking Dad podcast is a member of the Biblical Family Network. Our mission is to support and encourage the family by providing the very best podcasts on family, discipleship, marriage, parenting, worldview, culture, and education, all from a Biblical perspective. Visit the website for more great shows.
The Thinking Dad is sponsored by CTCMath.
Thinking dads raise thinking kids! One of the most important things you can do as a father is make sure your kids are getting a great education to prepare them for life. CTCMath is a powerful tool for that mission, and it's the one our family uses and loves.
 CTCMath specializes in providing online video tutorials that take a multi-sensory approach to learning. Creative graphics and animation, synchronized with the friendly voice of internationally acclaimed teacher, Pat Murray, make learning math easy and effective, even for students who struggle with math. Visit CTCmath.com to start your free trial today.
Connect with the Thinking Dad:
Subscribe to the Thinking Dad newsletter
@GarrittHampton on X
Garritt Hampton on Facebook
Thinking Dad on YouTube
 
@schoolhouse_rocked on Instagram
Schoolhouse Rocked on Facebook
@SRHomeschool on Twitter
Schoolhouse Rocked Website (Blog, Newsletter, Support, Store, Movie, and More!)